Showing posts with label lots of pain. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lots of pain. Show all posts

Saturday, January 31, 2015

Monday, January 5, 2015

 
"Courage is not just one of the cardinal virtues, but as C.S. Lewis observed: 'Courage is...the form of every virtue at the testing point...Pilate was merciful till it became risky.  King Herod was sorrowful at the request to behead John the Baptist but wanted to please them which sat with him at meat.'" (Matt. 14:9)
-Elder Lynn G. Robbins
 
James built me a fire before leaving for the valley.  He is one of my heroes.
I did my gospel study, some cleaning, and bill paying and two blog posts, December 13th and 14th.  The blog posts took almost two hours because of the pictures I downloaded.  I called the infusion center at the arthritis center to see if I could keep my 1:30 appointment today.  I left a message saying I needed to know by 9:30 because I would be coming almost 200 miles to get there.  No one ever called me back.  Another day of pain.
 
After taking a shower and getting ready to go somewhere I decided to go into the post office in Vernon to return the duplicate Madden game I got Max for Christmas.  I left the house at 11:38 in a bit of a hurry because the post office closes at noon for an hour.  When I got to the intersection of the Vernon road I pressed on my brakes and began sliding.  I know to let up on the brake but somehow the message did not get from my brain to my foot and I just kept pushing on my brake.  I began sliding on the ice still on the road and continued sliding until I hit the embankment on the opposite side of the Vernon Rd.  It's a good thing no one was coming or there would have been a collision.  I revved up my engine and got out of the ditch and considered myself lucky as I headed towards town.  I soon noticed that my car was making a terrible noise.  I stopped at the church and saw that I had a flat tire on the front driver's side.  I immediately called James. 
James was eating lunch at Jersey Mike's but he said he would call Chuck Crane for me. Chuck was at the church within 15 minutes.
 
Chuck Crane is another one of my heroes.  He proceeds to get the spare out from under my car and changes my tire even though he has a bad back and a bad knee.
 
Not necessarily Chuck's best side but nonetheless the position of a real hero at work.  I am so grateful for good friends and neighbors!
 
Today was a gorgeous sun shiny day with the high around 46 degrees.  I had planned on going to Show Low to get a salad after going to the post office but went straight home and had a hot dog with pork & beans instead.  I watched a couple of Hallmark movies, did some more cleaning and paying bills, and took a call from the arthritis center.  I have an infusion appointment and an appointment with Tiffany on Friday starting at 8:30. 
I am in so much pain that I take six methotrexates instead of four.
 
James exchanged James Hayden's boot that we got him for Christmas for size 10 1/2's.  I think he needed a reason to go to Bass Pro Shop to spend his Christmas gift cards.
 
 
 
 



Thursday, August 15, 2013

Saturday, July 6, 2013

I got updates from Trina throughout the night regarding James's surgery:  This text was sent at 12:50 am:
"He's out of surgery.  I just talked to Dr. Ortega.  He was able to place screws and bars.  They are going to watch the swelling every day.  They will do a ct scan later today to figure out the extent of the injury.  After the swelling goes down the earliest would be Monday, they will go in and place a plate and nail.  (They actually placed three plates and a rod.)
 Recovering from surgery
Exterior hardware
3:16 am. "They got him to his room.  He's eating ice.  His nurse is great.  I'm not going to stay because the room is tiny and he has a roommate.  There is nowhere for me to be, but he's good.  They are giving him pain medication now.  He is in room 410."

I got this message from James at 3:54 am: 
"This is my new home for about a week.  They will do another surgery on Sunday or Monday. (They weren't actually able to do it until Thursday).  Please bring me some garment changes, and shirt and pants and socks.  They cut off my clothes.  Please bring my medicine as well.  You are the love of my life!  Trina stayed with me all night.  Darrel is very blessed to have her.  I'm so drugged that it took me 30 minutes to do this text."

I left Vernon around 8:00am.  I stopped in Show Low to get gas and wash my car and to get something to eat at McDonald's.  I got this text as I was coming into Payson: "Where is my sunshine?"  I texted back: "On my way."  "What does that mean?"  "Payson."  "Be careful."  "OK."

James is so happy to see me when I finally arrive.  He is in alot of pain and very tired.  His nurse, a young black girl named Ryan tries various drugs for pain.  

This afternoon Tricia and her kids, who are in town, come for a visit, and so do Trina and her kids.  

James had a roommate, a hispanic man by the name of Ernie, but he checks out at the end of the day.

I stay until 9:30.  James wants me to stay but there is really no where for me to stay.  We ask the nurse about the empty bed and she said if I did use it we would have to pay for it.  Well I guess not.  I really do hate to leave but I need some rest so I can be here for him tomorrow.

I am going to close with a quote I saw today on Facebook by Mother Teresa:
"People are often unreasonable and self-centered.  Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives.  Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may be jealous.  Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow.  Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough.  Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God.  It was never between you and them anyway."