Friday, November 5, 2021

Wed, Nov 3rd, 2021: Temple#80 Memphis, Tennessee: "To the Citizens of Quincy"ERS, finished puzzle & book, "One Hour Behind", Charlie, Lola, Steps

 

Memphis, Tennessee
80th operating temple
16 Apr 2000
By: James E. Faust

Jesus Christ, Redeemer
Alma 42:15
And now, the plan of mercy could not be brought about except an atonement should be made; therefore God himself atoneth for the sins of the world, to bring about the plan of mercy, to appease the demands of justice, that God might be a perfect, just God, and a merciful God also.
Book of Mormon
3 Nephi 19:1-29
D&C
128:1-14
"Come Follow Me"
127:2-4; The Lord knows my joys and sorrows
OctGenCon
"The Savior's Abiding Compassion"
Elder Ulisses Soares
Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
The Savior acted compassionately toward all who would come unto Him - without distinction - and most especially toward those who most needed His help.


The Living Christ
#10
We testify that He will someday return to earth. "And in the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together" (Isaiah 40:5). He will rule as King of Kings and reign as Lord of Lords, and every knee shall bend and every tongue shall speak in worship before Him. Each of us will stand to be judged of Him according to our works and the desires of our hearts.

Inklings
I will allow my persistence . . .
to be met with patience.

Up at 4:21. I realized our electric bill was due, so I paid it on my phone. I began reading 1 Samuel 17, the story of David and Goliath, as part of Inklings assignment for the week. I also listened to "Follow Him." Dr. Jennifer Reeder is the guest this week. She work the book I read earlier this year, "First, the Life and Faith of Emma Smith." 

Dr. Reeder made me aware of a poem written by Eliza R. Snow regarding the rescue of the Saints by the people of Quincy, Illinois. It is called, "To The Citizens of Quincy." I could not find it in a search on Googleso I went to my Deseret Book Plus app and searched "The complete poetry of Eliza R. Snow. A book came up and I downloaded it to my app. It is an ebook so I was able to read the poem. It is rather long and I am trying to decide if I should include it in this blog post. 

To the Citizens of Quincy

Eliza R. Snow recalled that Saints exiled from Missouri "were received with generous hospitality" by the citizens of Quincy, Illinois.
Shortly after arriving there in late March or early April 1839, she wrote this poem of gratitude to the town's "Sons and Daughters of Benevolence"

Ye Sons and Daughters of Benevolence,
Whose hearts are tun'd to notes of
sympathy
Who have put forth your liberal hand to
meet
The urgent wants of the oppress'd and
poor!
Ye high-ton'd spirits; who have nobly dar'd
To stem the foaming tide of vile reproach,
And brave the pois'nous, deadly current of 
Detraction and fell hate; in rescuing
Oppressed innocence, from the hard hand
Of the Oppressor!
In return for this,
Though it perpetuates your City's name
And makes the sound of Quincy, echo
sweet
And full of moral meaning to the soul
Of ev'ry true philanthropist: you get
No regal honors. - No loud trump of fame

Will blazon forth your deeds, except to
throw
A dark'ning shade upon them; thus to aim
A cruel missile at the rescued ones.
No laurel branch nor cypress bough will
wave
In graceful dignity about your heads, to
tell,
In speechless eloquence what you have
done.
No sculptur'd marble monument, will rear
Its head, as if in bold defiance to
The stern, untiring, withering hand of 
Time,
To teach your name and deeds to passersby.
No; we have no insignia of this kind -
No medal of an earthly mould to give:
But yet, we fain would proffer you a boon
Of more congenial texture - one that's 
wrought
In the fine fibres of the human heart,
Not in that heart where selfishness, and mean,
And low, and sordid feelings sit enthron'd:
And whose dull pulses are like clods
confin'd
By the unwieldy chains of Ignorance.
For there are some, who, "privily have
crept
Among us unawares" whose hearts are
set
On gain, for filthy lucre's sake: - and while 
We say to you, BEWARE OF SUCH, lest
they
Abuse your liberality - we say,
Esteem them our MISFORTUNE, not our
FAULT;
For tares must grow among the wheat,
until
The time of harvest; therefore, the upright,
Must often suffer an unjust reproach.
Pure Gratitude, our free-will off'ring, is
The product of an elevated mind;
When the heart beats with sensibility-
Reciprocates each high-born thought, and 
stoops
Unask'd, to pay its def'rence at the shrine
-
The sacred shrine of generosity.
And SOME, yes, MANY, spirits such as
these,
We have among us; -Noble minded ones,
Who will not swerve from those
unchanging laws-
The steadfast principles of righteousness:

Whose firm integrity would yet remain
Unmov'd tho' "mountains skip like rams,
and all
The little hills like lambs."
The Gratitude
Which emanates from spirits such as these;
Is no mean offering - neither cheaply won

Ye noble, gen'rous hearted Citizens
Of Quincy!

Dr. Reeder is a cancer survivor. She had leukemia four times and has had two bone marrow transplant surgeries. She was the Relief Society President when she was taking cancer treatments. She has a picture of her presidency all in hats to honor her because she had no hair. I believe Dr. Reeder is one of my favorite guests on this podcast.

I finished the ice cream puzzle today and sent Sheri a picture. She texted me back and said, "I knew you could do it!!!"


I also finished my book, "A Heart Revealed." This is one of my all-time favorite proper romance books about a girl with alopecia. Alopecia is sudden hair loss that starts with one or more circular bald patches that may overlap. Alopecia areata occurs when the immune system attacks hair follicles, and may be brought on by severe stress.
Amber Sterlington, the belle of the ball in London,  looses all of her hair and is exiled to a small cabin in Yorkshire. Her entire life style changes and she truly finds herself. It is a story of change and redemption and unconditional love. 

We had stir fry for lunch using the noodles left over from our Panda bowls. I also added green onions, red bell pepper, celery, and mushrooms along with a bag of cabbage salad. It was delicious.



James is trying to get paid for the DaCroix job. Hopefully by the end of the week or early next week.

The weather has been so wonderful, perfect for working outside. James works for awhile and then comes in for awhile because he has no stamina or energy. We both started new books today. The one I started with James is called "My Fair Gentleman" by Nancy Campbell Allen. My book is "Lady Helen Finds Her Song" by Jennifer Moore. 

James felt so badly today that he took two Tramadol, something he very rarely does. Kacey texted to see how he was doing and told me about the problems she is having with her kids. Parenting can be hard. I am so grateful we have the Savior to help us through our difficult times.

We watched a movie tonight while walking. The movie, "One Hour Behind" was on GAC and starred Emily Rose and Barry Watson. It was filmed in Provo and Salt Lake City. James and I both really liked it. 

I got the conference notebooks I ordered, four of them. One for myself, one for Kim, Ginger, and Catherine. 
























  




Thursday, November 4, 2021

Tue, Nov 2nd, 2021: Temple#79 Medford, Oregon, Cammy's birthday cake and Donna's birthday cake, Charlie, Scarlett, Steps

 

Medford, Oregon
79th operating temple
Dedicated: 16 Apr 2000
By: James E. Faust

Jesus Christ, Redeemer
Alma 11:40
And he shall come into the world to redeem his people; and he shall take upon him the transgressions of those who believe on his name; and these are they that shall have eternal life, and salvation cometh to none else.
Book of Mormon
3 Nephi 18:15-39
D&C
127; RIC: Letters on Baptism for the dead
"Come Follow Me"
126; The Lord wants me to care for my family
OctGenCon
"Come Unto Christ and Don't Come Alone"
Sister Bonnie H. Cordon
Young Women General President
Have you ever had that searching feeling, wondering if Heavenly Father knows who you are and if He needs you? My dear youth, and to all, I testify the answer is yes! The Lord has a plan for you. He has prepared you for this day, right now, to be a strength and force for good in His mighty work. We need you! It simply will not be as grand without you!


The Living Christ
#9
We declare in words of solemnity that His priesthood and His Church have been restored upon the earth - "built upon the foundation of . . . apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner stone" (Ephesians 2:20).

Inklings
An Invitation For This Week
"I invite you to examine your life and see what's stagnated or slowed you on the covenant pathway. Seek modest but makeable fixes in your life that might result in the sweet joy of being just a little better."

Listen to Brooke Snows podcast episode Floors and Ceilings and determine your floors - your foundation - to become just one percent better and create that spiritual momentum in your life.

James saw the doctor when he went for his radiation treatment this morning. She said he looked drawn and dehydrated. He told her about his problem and she suggested that he quit treatments until next Monday and see if that helps him get better. She was also supposed to call in a prescription for pain, but she must have forgotten. I think James felt better when he left because he felt validated and listened to.

As I was listening to my book, "A Heart Revealed" Amber Sterlington, who is the main character, says this:
"Every happy memory is that much more light I shall take with me."  

My mission for today was making and baking two birthday cakes, a carrot cake for Cammy's birthday, and a Texas sheetcake for Donna. 

I got myself together and into the kitchen at 10:00 a.m. I was finally ready to deliver by 4 p.m. I was so happy with the carrot cake I made. I made a small amount in a small pan to taste and it was delicious! The frosting was divine! I made a small pan of Texas sheetcake for James and I to taste and it was delicious too!


Cammy ask me for the recipe

James and I had a nice visit with Donna when we delivered her cake but again, I forgot to take a picture of her. Cammy's favorite cake is carrot cake and she ask me for the recipe for this cake. I felt grateful that my gift to her was appreciated and accepted. 

I wanted to go into town to get a hamburger and fries, or Panda. James didn't want to go, but he did it for me. We went to Panda and we also filled up with gas, again. This time it is $3.39 a gallon. 

When we get home James does the dishes and cleans up the kitchen. What a relief since I really did not feel like being in the kitchen one more minute.

James and I walk together in the bedroom, yes it's crowded and sometimes we get in each other's way, but it brings a feeling of togetherness. We finished our book, "An Unlikely Match." 

I also walk around the table in the entry and work a little on the puzzle. I managed to get my 10,000 steps but not my 12,000.

 

Rachel's daughter Evie

Advent calendar






Brooke White



Emmett

Scarlett








 










Mon, Nov 1st, 2021: Temple #78 Fresno, California: James's pain, Sister Bartells, Sheri's invite, Jared's call, Carrot cake goes into the bin, DWTS

Fresno, California
78th operating temple
Dedicated: 9 Apr 2000 
By: Gordon B. Hinckley

Jesus Christ, Redeemer
Alma 9:27
And behold, he cometh to redeem those who will be baptized unto repentance, through faith on his name.
Book of Mormon
3 Nephi 18:1-14
D&C
125-126; RIC:"Take Special Care of Your Family"
"Come Follow Me"
D&C 125-128  "A Voice of Gladness for the Living and the Dead"
OctGenCon
"Pure Truth, Pure Doctrine, and Pure Revelation"
President Russell M. Nelson
President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
I have prayed about you and for you. I have prayed intently that this conference would be a time of revelation and reflection for all who seek those blessings.
We are delighted to be speaking to you from the Conference Center once again. Most of the seats remain empty, but the presence of some members of the Tabernacle Choir is a wonderful step forward. 
We welcome you all to this largely virtual conference, wherever you are.
We are still dealing with the ravages of Covid-19.
We thank you for following our counsel and advice of medical experts and government officials in your own communities.

"The Greatest Possession"
Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
With or without riches, each of us is to come to Christ with the same uncompromised commitment of His gospel that was expected of the rich young man in Mark 10:17-22. In the vernacular of today's youth, we are to declare ourselves "all in."


The Living Christ
"That by him, and through him, and of him, the worlds are and were created, and the inhabitants thereof are begotten sons and daughters un God" (D&C 76:22-24).

Inklings
Affirmation:
I am gaining spiritual momentum with every small, daily effort to be a little better. I meet persistence with patience, undaunted in my determination.

James is miserable. When he went for treatments today the radiation tech's talked to a doctor and they recommended some things he could take to get some relief. He's still miserable.

I called Sister Bartels today to tell her I enjoyed her talk yesterday and to talk to her about her ministering. When I asked her how her ministering was coming along she replied, it's not. When I asked her to explain, this is what she said. Her partner does not want to go out because of Covid. One sister does not want any changes made and therefore does not want Barbara to visit her. She has made phone calls to the other two sisters. I praised her for this. She was feeling quite discouraged and I tried to encourage her. I told her to keep in touch, get to know them, and pray for them. I think she felt better after we hung up.

While I was working on my blog I listened to an hour and ten minute interview with Susan Easton Black. This interview was done in 2010 at which time she was married to Harvey Black. Susan is even more amazing than I thought. She was a single mom in her 20's. Her parents were extremely wealthy but all of their money was inherited by her brothers. She found herself with 3 young boys living in a cabin on a dirt road (sounds familiar) in Blue Jay, California. She loved to write and decide she was going to find out more about her family history and then write a book about her family. The library in Blue Jay was quite lacking. She had a friend who suggested that they help each other out. She told Susan she would watch her three boys one afternoon a week so she could go back to school. At this time she already had a bachelor's degree from BYU in political science. She got her masters degree and was invited to come to BYU to teach psychology, which she did. Dallin H. Oaks was the president of BYU at the time. He was raised by a single mother and wanted women on the faculty at BYU to be treated fairly. There had never been a woman on the religion faculty and he invited Susan to teach a Book of Mormon class. She was the first woman among a faculty of men who had a tendency to think she was not qualified to teach religion because she didn't hold the priesthood. Well, she proved them wrong and the rest is history. Susan has written more pages, at least at this time in 2010, than any other LDS scholar, over 80,000 pages, 125 books and 300 articles. She has received awards in writing from Harvard and Stanford. She said she doesn't need a fancy car or house. She has given thousands of talks all over the United States. She was taught by her parents that when you have been given much it is important to give to others. She has received 35 teaching awards and loves her students. She even plays ping pong with them. It's the one leisure activity she allows herself. She says that the classroom is a stage. She has a photographic memory and doesn't use any notes when she speaks or teaches. 

When asked what her motto for life was, she said she had two. She said when she was a teenager she was out with her friend. When she came in she got on the phone and began talking about her friend. Her father brought her over a note which said: small people talk about people. She thought to herself that she was small in stature but she didn't want to be a "small person." Here is the entire quote: "Small people talk about people, medium sized people talk about events, and big people talk about ideas. 

Her other motto is: "I Can, I Will, I Must"!

Another question Susan was ask was where does she get her energy. She said when she married Harvey Black she adopted his vegan lifestyle and that is why she is healthy and has so much energy. 

The last question she was asked: "Do you have a woman that you admire and would like to emulate"? Her answer was, Ettie Lee. Here is what I found out about Ettie Lee. This is going to be a little long but I want it to be a part of my history.

Ettie Less was a high school English teacher in the Los Angeles area who noticed that some of her brightest students came from troubled homes and ended up in jail. When she noticed no agency offered these young men help, she decided to do something about it herself.

  Ettie was born on November 2, 1885, in Luna Valley, New Mexico. She was one of twelve children and her mother died when she was a baby. She learned much from her father who lived his life helping the less fortunate. He moved the family to Thatcher, Arizona, when Ettie was fifteen. After an education at Gila Academy, she began teaching in a small schoolroom - she was seventeen years at the time. Even then she noticed the needs of one boy who had been expelled and worked to help him turn his life around.

After teaching for three years, she graduated from Northern Arizona Normal School and began teaching at Gila Academy - one of her students was Spencer W. Kimball. He has been known to say, "If only there were a thousand Ettie Lees."
She left Arizona in 1914, earned her master's degree from the University of Southern California in 1917, and began teaching in the Los Angeles area. She noticed young men who struggled with life's challenges and responded by writing English textbooks that were used in the school district. When she decided to do something to help the abused and neglected young men by providing them with happy homes, she knew she needed money so she went to her library and found a book on how to buy and sell real estate. She saved $100 a month - half of her monthly salary - and using the techniques the book outlined, she bought a vacant lot for $1,000 and sold it for $5,000.

That successful beginning in 1927 encouraged her and she soon had nine single-family dwellings that she rented. She managed to continue acquiring and selling real estate throughout the Depression. During World War II she temporarily returned to teaching. She purchased five ranches for future homes for at risk boys. In 1946, she retired from teaching and by 1950 she was ready to start operation.

At first her homes had home parents - a married couple with experience working with children - who would teach the boys how to become productive citizens while loving and supporting them. Her company, Ettie Lee Youth and Family Services, continues today, but no longer functions with home parent couples - the last retired in 2012.

Ettie was recognized for her life
s work in various ways: she was named Los Angeles Times Woman of the Year in 1965, National Teacher of the Year in 1966, and Brigham Young University's Woman of the Year in 1967. She died on April 25, 1974.

Ettie Lee

I decided to bake the carrot cake I am making for Cammy today. Her birthday is tomorrow. The hardest part of the entire recipe was grating three cups of carrots. I made two layers and they both sunk. It sunk so much I decided I could not give this cake to Cammy, so James and I had a few pieces and then I threw the rest away. I also determined that it was not quite done. This means I will have to make another cake tomorrow. I decided to choose another recipe so I got online and found one on "Sally's Baking Addiction". She says it's her favorite carrot cake recipe. One thing I did to prepare for tomorrow was to grate the carrots today. 

Sheri invited us for Thanksgiving today and James actually said he would like to go. Sheri was excited and so was I. I told her to give me a food assignment. 

We got to FaceTime with Jared, Charlie, and Kacey this afternoon. Jared received the birthday card we sent him and wanted to thank us. He ask how his dad was and I told him of his struggles and pain. Jared said he was sorry and that they would continue to pray for him.

This evening while walking I watched "Dancing with the Stars." Tonight is Queen night so all of the dancers danced to a Queen song. 
Jenna and Jojo and The Miz and Witney were the bottom two. Jenna and Jojo got all of the judges saving votes so The Miz and Witney went home.









Windsor Castle