Wednesday, August 26, 2026

Friday, August 21st, 2026: DPZ or Coke Zero, Cupboard or Pantry, spilled stain on the patio, he uses my shop vac, cleans it and I hide it in my closet, James goes to town: Prescriptions, Culver's, horse feed, I bake 102 cookies, finish one handout & laminate the others. R&R w/ Tom, warranty deed for the sale of our land, RS mtg w/ Donna, Janna, Amy, Rise Zion report about remodeling meetinghouses

 

Belam, Brazil
Temple #174.


This morning I asked James if he would get me a Doctor Pepper Zero. I said: "They are in the bottom cupboard to the right of the kitchen sink. He came in a few minutes later and said I can't find any soda in the pantry. I told him again where they were. He brought me my thermos filled with soda. I took a sip and realized it was Coke Zero instead of DPZ. "Is this Coke Zero?" "Yes." "Did you remember I asked for DPZ?" "What's DPZ?" "Never mind honey, this is fine."

James is sanding and staining logs and other wood on the back porch. This morning he was sanding and already had his stain out and he tipped it over. Guess what he used to clean it up? My new shop vac!
He promised he would clean it out, which he did, but the filter is very dirty from all of the sawdust he has vacuumed up. I gathered it up and put it away, in my closet where James won't think to look, or at least he will have to ask me before he uses it. 

James made a trip to town to pick up prescriptions, buy horse feed, and buy me a salad at Culver's. He asked me to go with him but I told him I needed to bake cookies and finish handouts. 

I baked 102 cookies and bagged them, two cookies per bag. I laminated all of my Attributes of Christ handouts and started cutting them out since I am finished with the others. I'm going to take them with me tomorrow when we go to the valley and cut them out on the way or way back. After baking and working on handouts, I had some R&R time with Tom.

The survey for our land was finally recorded with Apache county. James had me type out a warranty deed for Dave & Wendy Elkins. We are taking it with us tomorrow so Brian can notarize it. We will be getting our money early next week. What to do with it. We want to invest it and try to live off of the interest, but we are novice investors. Hopefully Heavenly Father will provide a way.

This evening I had a meeting with Donna Beckham, Janna Grombach, and Amy Reynolds. Earlier this week Donna and Janna, who are in our ward RS presidency, attended a stake training meeting regarding the new Sunday schedule. Amy is the other RS teacher. 
Donna had taken notes of the meeting and had typed them out and made copies for us. I was grateful for her dedication. Her are just a few of the things she wrote down:
Ways to begin a lesson discussion:
1. What did the Holy Ghost teach you as you were preparing for our discussion?
2. What is a principle or truth that was meaningful to you this week?
3. What is one thing you learned from your study this week that you would like to share? 
4. What attributes or characteristics of the Savior did you learn in your study this week?
5. What principles of the gospel did you identify as you studied this week?
6. What did you learn about trials, the Lord, or yourself this week?

I like this approach, because it puts the responsibility for the discussion back where it belongs, on the participants in the class. It makes you realize that home-centered, Church-supported is the way we learn best.

I shared cookies and handouts with these sisters. Donna has never been here before and she said now she knows why everyone says our house is beautiful.

'A Peculiar Treasure'
Elder Alan R. Walker
"The Lord declared that His people would be a peculiar treasure unto Him if they would obey His voice and keep His covenant."

Psalm 31:3
For thou art my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy names sake lead me, and guide me.

Carmen made this out of fondant.
She is so talented!

Carmen sent this to me for my birthday,
not only is she talented, she is thoughtful too!









Paul's brother Devin



Tuesday, August 25, 2026

Thursday, August 20th, 2026: Inklings, CFM, Temple, Halverson on the way to the temple, full session, Debbie Holyoak, home to eat ribs, avocado & cottage cheese, R&R, blog, walk, handouts, 5th episode of Paris Is Always A Good Idea

 

Praia, Cape Verde
Temple #173.

I got up early and ready for the temple so I could watch Inklings before we had to leave at 8:30. James tried to invite Virgil Cooper but he wasn't answering his phone and his messages were full. We usually go to the temple on Friday but tomorrow I am baking cookies for Relief Society so today is temple day this week. 

The talk we studied in Inklings today was Elder Renlunds', "Because of Jesus Christ." 
Invitation: Open wide your broken heart and let your Savior in!
Promise:  Because of Jesus Christ, all that is unfair in life can and will be made right. He will consecrate our afflictions for our gain.
He will sanctify to us our deepest distress. He will fill with sweet a bitter cup. He will dependably and consistently make us whole. If we let Him, we will "suffer no manner of afflictions, save it is swallowed up in the joy of Christ." 
Favorite Quote: "All mankind may be saved because of Him and His atoning sacrifice. All means everyone. If everyone, then anyone. If anyone, then even one. And if even one, then even you."
Affirmation: I am centered in Christ. Because of Jesus Christ, I can keep my heart focused on what matters most. As I look to Him first, He fills my life with greater clarity, purpose, and lasting joy. 

James and I did our gospel study on the way to the temple. We listened to Alma 53:1-17 and for our Old Testament study we read the section of this week's lesson entitle, "The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord." We also read Psalms 26-28. When we were finished we went to Halverson on Unshaken to learn more about the Psalms. 

Our 10:00 o'clock session was pretty full. The temple is closing the end of August for a couple of months so more people are coming. We saw and visited with Debbie Holyoak after the session. She was the post mistress in Vernon for several years. She knows Harold and Vickie. 

We decided instead of going out to eat we would just go home and eat from our frig. We had ribs, cottage cheese and avocado and everything tasted delicious and we saved some money too.

After lunch it was rest time. James took a long nap before going to work outside. I sat on the recliner and did my rest activities: playing Match Factory, listening to my online book, reading from Emma M. Lion and doing my 50 sit-ups. Afterwards I did a little walking and worked on this blog/journal. 

This evening James and I watched the 5th episode of "Paris Is Always A Good Idea." We were disappointed and hope next week's finale will be better. I did work on handouts while we were watching. 

"It is not only my worthiness, but the Lord's mercy that allows me to be in the temple."
- Jared Halverson

"Wherever you are now or whatever you are going through in your life, you can feel God's infinite love manifested through His Son, Jesus Christ."
- Elder Mutombo

Psalm 26:2-3
Judge me, O LORD, for I have walked in mine integrity: I have trusted also in the LORD; therefore I shall not slide.
Examine me, O LORD, and prove me; try my reins and my heart.


The Quilt for the Fears Family
 
This is Kacey speaking:
"This is how the quilt turned out. I delivered it today to the place where Tracey worked and they will deliver it to his wife. They thought that was the best way and then to let her reach out to me if she wanted to and when she was ready."

"The darker squares have dandelions in them. I sent her a framed copy of the explanation of the symbolism - why I chose the color, pattern and design of the quilt."


"I wrote her a letter as well. It feels good to have that part behind me."

"The Lord has truly guided the whole thing. Even down to how to get it to her. I had a dream I was at the temple with a lady in our ward and she told me she knew someone that could deliver it to Stephanie, his wife. I called her the following morning and sure enough she did!"

"It has been a sacred experience and has been healing for me and I hope it helps to bring her comfort and healing as well."

This is so beautiful!!




Purple and Pink





Monday, August 24, 2026

Wednesday, August 19th, 2026: Happy Birthday to me, Marvin Johnson, Rachel Pheil, Millie Scott, etc., mailed Charlie's card, money for Kat & Larry, take Millie her card & gift, Grumpy Jake's w/ James, Harold, Vickie, Dennis, Denise, trip home photos, card from Sheri's family & an Amazon gift card, Susan Goodman and Kathy Crane visit,

 

Yigo, Guam
Temple #172.


Happy Birthday to me!
(Picture taken on Mother's Day. I don't have many
pictures of myself that I like, but I like this one.)


Today was a Best Day! I woke up this morning and had my morning devotional, scriptures & prayer with James and worked on my blog a little.. The first person to wish me a happy birthday this morning was Kleis Bennett, a friend from our days in Chandler. She direct messaged me. It was so sweet of her.

James and I are meeting Harold, Vickie, Dennis and Denise at Grumpy Jake's @ noon. We left the house around 10:30 because I have a card and a small gift to give to Millie Scott. It's her birthday too. Millie was already being picked up by Judy Hunter to have lunch at Persnikkity's. They were still in Millie's driveway in Judy's car. I gave Millie her birthday card and the small bag with the pumpkin apple candle I bought for her. I gave her a hug and kissed her cheek. I also thanked Judy again for my beautiful card.  I told them to enjoy their lunch, and then I went back to our car so we could get out of their way.

As we headed for Show Low I looked at the sunflowers growing beside the road and realized what beauty is around us. I had a feeling of gratitude. Our first task in Show Low was to mail Charlie's birthday card at the Show Low post office. Next we stopped at Chase bank and James went in to get money to pay Kat & Larry as they are working today. 

We arrived at Grumpy Jake's about 20 minutes before noon. We got out table, the same one we sat at last September when we came here for my mom's birthday. 

When everyone arrived we ordered our food. James and Harold had the Philly cheesesteak sandwich. Harold had a side of fries and James had the cowboy beans. Vickie had the French dip sandwich, Denise had a whole cranberry chicken salad and I had the half, Dennis had a pulled pork sandwich with a salad. The food was good except Harold & Vickie's fries were a little meh. 

I love that Grumpy plays oldie songs. We heard the Everly brothers, Johnny Rivers, Rick Nelson and Brenda Lee just to name a few. The first song was "Stupid Cupid" which was a Connie Francis song but it didn't sound like Connie singing. Anyway, here are a few photos I took:


Even though it was my birthday, I did not
order any dessert. I would have loved some
coconut cream pie or lemon meringue.


Casual Cowboy Decor


A fine looking bunch!

We don't see Dennis, Denise, Harold, and Vickie very often and it was fun to "catch up." 

On the way back to Vernon I took some pictures because everything looks so beautiful right now.

You can see some sunflowers in the distance
but this picture doesn't do them justice. I love
the blue sky, white clouds, green rolling hills,
and beautiful yellow sunflowers. Normal people
may wonder why I live far from stores and other
conveniences but this is why. Be still my soul.

Green's Peak in the background




God's handiwork

For my birthday James said I could order the Green Mini Carpet Cleaner.
Here is what it looks like:

I want to use it to clean our couches.
I am so excited!

I also ordered these for my hammer toes.

James also paid for everyone's lunch at Grumpy Jake's. He is very generous!

We stopped at the post office and picked up a card from Sheri's family. Everyone had signed it with a thoughtful message and Sheri also sent a $50 Amazon gift card. Here is what I bought with the gift card:
I would love to wear this at Charlie's
baptism, but I don't think it will arrive in time.

Back at home James and I joined Tom for rest time. James and Tom are on the bed in the bedroom, and I'm on the recliner in the family room. They sleep, I just go into relax mode. First I played Match Factory on my phone, then I listened to "Kiss of a Stranger", read from Emma M. Lion volume 8, and did 50 exercises with this lovely contraption:

I hope it helps to flatten my tummy.

One of my ministering sisters, Susan Goodman came for a visit bearing gifts. She brought me some chocolates with praline and raspberries. Even though they are milk chocolate, James loves them!

I took this photo in the dark, but I wanted
everyone to see how beautifully each piece
was wrapped.

Susan also brought me a half dozen Colorado Freestone peaches. They are so beautiful you almost don't want to eat them, but when you take your first bite, you realize you do want to eat them because
they are delicious! Thank you Susan for thinking of me and for staying and visiting awhile, and for the wonderful gifts and card. I love you!

Peaches, flowers from Kathy Crane, cards, candy, and a love letter
from James!

You can't see this beautiful card from
Judy Hunter in the picture above, so
I had to post it here. Love!!

I got messages from all of my children and their spouses and lots of
friends on Facebook. I feel loved!

When Kathy Crane brought me the bouquet of flowers, Tom was on my lap. When he saw her, he slinked off into the bedroom. 

Another tender mercy I experienced today was some unexpected rain this evening. It was a perfect way to end the day. James and I also watched a couple of episodes of "Paris is Alway a Good Idea" starring Lacey Chabert. I worked on my Relief Society handouts while I watched. 

I have to tell a funny story on myself. Last month my lesson was on President Christofferson's talk, "The Character of Christ." I looked for handouts on Etsy and Love, Pray, Teach that talked about the attributes of Christ and that is what I used. As I was walking down the hallway out of the kitchen I glanced to the left where I have some family photos and other items posted and found this yellow handout listing the Attributes of Christ and scriptures that go with them. How did I miss this last month? Anyway, I am making copies, laminating them, and handing them out to the sisters a month late.

Lessons for "Best Days and Worst Days" on the left and
Christlike Attributes on the right.

"Focusing on the Savior, His infinite Atonement, and what He has done for us will bring joy and clarity into our lives."
- Elder Dale G. Renlund

Psalm 25:16
Turn thee unto me, and have mercy upon me; for I am desolate and afflicted.


Birthday Memories with some of my granchidren:

Molly & Ruby
Best Buddies

So sorry Rowan's head isn't in the picture. 
Ruby and Lola. Not sure where Addy was.
This is the day we made Twinkie Minions.

James going to feed the horses. If you look closely, you
can see the horses waiting for him. He whistles for them, and
they whinny back and Apollo snorts too.

I am always so happy when former Primary kids or
Young Women go to the temple to get their endowments.
This is Grace Umpress in the white dress with her parents
Aaron & Ashley. I had Gracie in Primary. Congratulations
Gracie!

Gracie and her fiance,
Cade Flake.

President Oaks and Kristen on their wedding day.
I just couldn't pass this one up. They all look so happy!

A beautiful sunset near our home.

 

























 



Friday, August 21, 2026

Tuesday, August 18th, 2026: Card to Terry Farnsworth, Texts to: Sheri, Teresa S., Kathy C., Kacey; listen to Halverson on Psalms, Culver's, shop, dinner to Grombach's & Gilbert's, RS ice cream social & love language class w/ Teresa Smith, Evelyn Carter is a floater

 

Rio De Janeiro, Brazil
Temple #171.


Before leaving for town this morning I called the bank about the problem with our line of credit. It's paid off and because I had it on auto pay they keep taking money out of the business account and putting it towards the line of credit. This is the fourth time it's happened, and the fourth time I've called and about the 12th person I have spoken to. This time I spoke to Leann in the payment department and she was very helpful. She put in an order to have the money returned to our checking account, and to stop autopay. I told her how much I appreciated her help and I think we became instant friends.

I also texted Sheri, Teresa Smith, Kathy Crane and Kacey this morning. I like to get my phone calls, etc., done in the morning. 
James and I left around 10 am for town. We listened to Jared Halverson from Unshaken in the car talking about the Psalms. He is very thorough and I like listening to him, although his lesson is over 3 hours long, it covers the first 48 Psalms. Brother Halverson said instead of asking someone if they read their scriptures, you should ask them, what scripture are you pondering on? Today I am pondering on Psalm 1:3 - And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. I like to picture myself as the tree, drinking in the living water from the river. The river represents the Savior.

After mailing Terry Farnsworth's sympathy card, Evans passed away, we stopped at Culver's for lunch. We both got the chicken cashew salad. Another thing I like about Culver's is the music they play. They play oldies and I love listening to them.

James dropped me off at Walmart while he went to Lowe's to get a part for the sprinklers. Afterwards he went to Circle K to fill up with gas. I shopped for dinner for the Gilbert's. I'm making Weight Watcher's 0 points veggie soup. Mikki asked for what I fixed last time, and this is what I fixed. She also asked for corn muffins, so I got my favorite cornbread mix. 

I came home and rested for about an hour, reading from Emma M. Lion, listening to "The Kiss of a Stranger", doing 50 sit ups with my exercise strap, and playing Match Factory. This is what I do during my rest time. 

I had a Dolly Parton muffin mix that has been in the pantry for awhile. When I opened it I saw it had weevils. I'm glad I bought a mix when I was at the store today. I made twelve corn muffins and popped them in the oven. The muffins didn't rise like I wanted them to but I know they will taste good. I also made a double batch of Weight Watcher 0 points vegetable soup, one for the Gilbert's and one for the Grombach's. I know Janna has a stake meeting tonight and I wanted to do something to help her. I can't do something "big", but I can take her a simple meal. 

It takes longer to chop all of the vegetables for this soup than I remembered. First onions, celery, and carrots. The cabbage and zucchini. I also added some canned green beans. 

James and I delivered to the Grombach's around 5 and then headed for the Gilbert's which is about 10 or so miles away. I have the directions from the last time we took a meal to them. Their circumstances are very humble. Brother Gilbert greeted us shirtless. I guess he wasn't expecting company. I go in and talk to Mikki while James visits with Roger, or Brother Gilbert. Mikki tells me she has to use the wound vacuum for two more weeks on her amputated leg and then she has to wait another two months before getting a prothesis. 

Mikki tells me about her six cats. I saw 4 cats, 3 were asleep. Magic, the calico, is 20 years old. She is asleep on the bench near where I am standing. Daisy is asleep on her back behind Mikki with her legs up in the air. Another "reddish" cat is just to the right of Daisy on another bed. Not sure if this cat was Snap or Pop or the one cat that shall remain nameless. Crackle is the newest member of the family, a 3-month-old white kitty with the bluest eyes you have ever seen. I ask Mikki if I could do her laundry. She said Kerri Halcomb was doing it. I know Kerri teaches school so I was surprised that she would take the time to do their laundry.

When I walk into the door of my beautiful home I feel embarrassed or humbled by the comparison of where the Gilbert's live. When I look around at all my "stuff" I remember the comment a brother made in Sunday School this week: "We didn't come to this earth to collect stuff." The Gilbert's live in the humblest circumstances you can imagine in this country yet Mikki is grateful for her blessings and trusts in the Lord. She is an easy person to serve because she is so lovable. 

Teresa Smith talked me in to coming to the RS ice cream social this evening. I hurried and did the dishes and then said goodbye to James and left for the church at about 6:20. I had told Teresa that I had heard she was moving and how much I was going to miss her. That's when she asked me if I would come tonight. I told her I wouldn't eat any ice cream but I would come to see her. 

Kerri Halcomb conducted. The RS presidency had a stake meeting tonight so they were not there. Kerri thanked me again for the cinnamon rolls and she also thanked me for coming tonight. There were only 11 of us: Kerri, Teresa, Amy Gordon, Roxy - Teresa's friend who is helping her move, Barbara Tignor, me, Alicia and Stefani Hunsaker, Linda Price, Evelyn Carter, and Joyce (I can't remember her name). T-Bo Tignor, John Finnell, and Willy Grombach were the priesthood brethren in attendance to provide protection. 

Teresa gave us a quiz regarding the five love languages to determine what our love language is. Mine is acts of service and gifts. Barbara's is physical touch. I don't remember everyone else's. I visited with Barbara and she told me she made a display of my RS handouts. Here is a photo:

Just a few of my handouts

After the meeting I gave Teresa Smith a big hug and told her I was going to miss her and that we should keep in touch. She said they are selling everything because it is time to down-size and get rid of "stuff." There is that word again. 

There were two sisters at the meeting I didn't know. One was Roxy, Teresa's friend. I spoke with her before the meeting. After the meeting I went over to introduce myself to the other sister. Her name is Evelyn Carter, and she says they spend their winters in Ajo. They know the Scott's and are staying on Dennis & Kelly Moore's property across from the Halcomb's. Evelyn looks like she is about my age. She was driving a big red van with Wyoming license plates. I asked her if she was from Wyoming and she said she was. That's where they raised their nine children. She said that she and her husband have been "floaters" for the past 20 years. They are off grid and they live in a converted school bus. She said one of their children bought ten acres of land in Wyoming and they were going to go back there to live. She said they couldn't afford to go on a mission but they would love to work in the new Cody, Wyoming temple after it is dedicated. Another person who doesn't have very much "stuff." I enjoyed meeting and talking with Evelyn.

"Abiding in Christ is not an occasional or casual act; it is a constant, conscious, and sacred choice."
- Elder Ulisses Soares

Psalm 19:14
Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.




Charlie loves school!

Relief Society Ice Cream Social & Love Language class
left to right: Joyce, Evelyn, Linda, Stefani, Kerri, Barbara,
Roxy, Teresa, Alicia. Amy Gordon and I are not seen in the picture.