Wednesday, November 16, 2022

Tuesday, November 15th, 2022: Barbara Goodman, J's new gloves, Temple w/ Ruth Gale, Streets for dinner, Steps, " Christmas Masquerade", Read, Bed

 

The Hague, Netherlands
114th operating temple
Dedicated: 8 Sept 2002
By: Gordon B. Hinckley

Jesus Christ, Son of man
Luke 22:69
Hereafter shall the Son of man sit on the right hand of the power of God.
Book of Mormon
3 Nephi 29:1-30:2
"Come Follow Me"
Amos 3:1-8; 7:10-15 The Lord reveals truth through His prophets. 
Amos 3.


OctGenCon
"Wholeheartedness"
Sister Michelle D. Craig
First Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency
Near the end of His ministry, Jesus told His Apostles that hard times would come. But He also said, "See that ye be not troubled." Yes, He would leave, but He would not leave them alone. He would send His Spirit to help them remember, stand fast, and find peace. The Savior fulfills His promise to be with us, His disciples, but we must continually look to Him to help us recognize and enjoy His presence.
Christ's disciples have always encountered hard times.

Up at 4 a.m. One of the first thoughts I had was that it was this day, one year ago, that we lost our friend, Barbara Goodman. Pierce and Susan were not at "Come Follow Me" last night because Barbara's daughter had come down from her home in Salt Lake to go through her mother's things. Every life makes a difference and a life that moves from this existence to the next, leaves behind a hole, an emptiness that wasn't there before.  I still miss my friend Barbara, and I always will, no matter what, no one can take her place. 

I gave James one of his Christmas presents today. New, waterproof work gloves. It has been in the 20's in the mornings and he is going out and working in this weather. He was very excited and appreciative!

I went to the temple today with my friend Ruth Gale. At Ruth's choice we go to the 3:30 session. I met Ruth in the dressing room at the temple so I could give her one of Ruth Wallace's Ackenhousen names. One of Ruth's lines is from Germany and she has done extensive research on this line and she has lots of names to do. I told her I would help until I did more research and found more of my own names. 

When I got to the temple and entered and showed my recommend at the desk, the sister on duty scanned my name and said, "You don't have an appointment." I was surprised to hear this because I was sure I had made an appointment, but I guess I didn't. I know we don't have to make appointment so why is this sister making me feel guilty for not making one. I asked her if the session was full and she said, no.  She had me wait at the desk until another sister brought a paper. She looked at the paper, marked something, and then told me I could go in. Whew, I thought for a minute she wasn't going to let me in. 

There were six sisters and six brothers in our session. Again, as last week, the session was not closed captioned. I like it better when they are closed captioned. The Bowen's, the couple who come to the temple nearly everyday, and do Scandinavian names. I was the only sister no in the prayer circle. There was one brother who did not go up. I he had, I would have been next to him. President Danny Crandall took me through the veil and his wife, Tricia, was in the Celestial room when I arrived. 

After leaving the temple, Ruth and I drove to Street on Main for dinner. My choice. I like their salads. I ordered the crispy chicken salad with honey mustard dressing. Ruth had the avocado toast with a smaller crispy chicken salad. We talked about Valeen's move to Texas and Ruth's trip to help them move. She said they had three vehicles and it took them 25 hours. I just laughed. Oh yes, they also had four dogs with them. We talked about Thanksgiving and Janice, Ruth's daughter who is Kim's friend, becoming a psychologist and going to work while she still has children at home. We remembered while we were raising our children how President Benson encouraged mother's to stay at home with their children. We both were able to do that, but not all mothers are. Ruth mentioned how critical the teenage years are and how important it is to be there for your children when they are ready to confide in you. 

We talked about Thanksgiving, and January Stratton. Ruth lives across the street from where January & Blaine have their motor home parked but they do not attend her ward. They are attending the ward where their home is being built. She said they did do a fireside which she attended. Blaine was a mission president in South America at the same time the Kempton's were called to California. I remember seeing their pictures in the Church News. 

I told Ruth about Pierce getting married and she said, "Men don't like to be alone." She said she doesn't mind being alone because she can do whatever she wants. It probably helps that she has children and grandchildren nearby. 

I had told James earlier that I wouldn't be home until after 7 so when I walked into the house and he said, what happened to after 5, I was a little surprised. I said I had told him our session wouldn't be over until after 5 and then we were going out to eat. I guess he only heard after 5 and expected me two hours ago. 

I had lots of steps to take so I changed my clothes and put on my Christmas movie and started walking. I finished Believing Christ and I am now listening to Following Christ. I listened to it to and from the temple and then decided I needed a new novel, so I downloaded "In the Shadow of a Queen" by Heather B. Moore. This book is based on Louise, the daughter of Queen Victoria and Prince Albert. '
As a young woman, Princess Louise is considered the most beautiful and talented daughter of Queen Victoria and Prince Albert. She is also strong-willed and resists following the queen's rigid rules and strict protocols for a princess. After her father's untimely death, Louise's life is upended by the inconsolable grief of her mother and the rippling effect that rocks the British Empire. Captive to the queen's overwhelming mourning, Louise is forbidden to leave her mother's tight circle of control, attend balls, or have any kind of relationship outside the royal family. She is relegated to the position of personal secretary to her mother-the same position each of her sisters held until they were married. Already an accomplished painter, Louise risks the queen's wrath by exploring the art of sculpting, an activity viewed as unbefitting a woman. When Louise involves herself in the day's political matters without Queen Victoria's approval, including championing the career of a female doctor and communicating with suffragettes, the queen lays down the law to stop her and devotes her full energy and resources to finding an acceptable match for her defiant daughter. In the Shadow of a Queen is the story of an epic battle of wills between two women: a daughter determined to forge her own life beyond the shadow of her mother, and a queen resolved to keep the Crown's reputation unsullied no matter the cost.

James and I read a chapter from our book, "The Call of the Sea." This book is set in the 1100's and is about Vikings and their effect on the world they try to conquer. One of the main characters is Leif and he is drawn to the Christianity. We were in bed before 9!






One of my heroes,
Elaine Dalton












 


Monday,November 14th, 2022: Goulash, hot chocolate, broken waterline @ Bartel's, DBPlus for Sheri, finish "Believing Christ", "CFM" @ Crane's, DWTS

 

Nauvoo, Illinois
113th operating temple
Dedicated: 27-30 June 2002
By: Gordon B. Hinckley

Jesus Christ: Son of man
Mark 14:62
And Jesus said, I am: and ye shall see the Son of man sitting on the right hand of power, and coming in the clouds of heaven.
Book of Mormon
3 Nephi 28:25-40
"Come Follow Me"
Amos; Obadiah "Seek the Lord, and Ye Shall Live" Introduction and
Amos 1-2
OctGenCon
"Our Earthly Stewardship"
Bishop Gerald Causse
Presiding Bishop
While visiting our native country of France, my wife and I recently had the pleasure of taking a few of our grandchildren to explore a magnificent garden situated in the little town of Giverny. We enjoyed wandering along its paths to admire the beautiful flower beds, the elegant water lilies, and the light playing on the ponds.
This amazing place is the result of the creative passion of one man: the great painter Claude Monet, who, for 40 years, tenderly shaped and cultivated his garden to make it his painting workspace. Monet immersed himself in nature's splendor; then, with his paintbrush, he conveyed the impressions he felt with strokes of color and light. Over the years, he created an extraordinary collection of hundreds of paintings, directly inspired by his garden.

I woke up at 4:05 but couldn't pull myself out of bed until 4:25. Honestly, this is the most precious time of the day because it is the time that I spend with my Heavenly Father, pouring my heart out to him in repentance, gratitude, and pleading for my family and those I love and serve here in Vernon. My prayer journal is precious and sacred to me.

James, Greg, and the Crane boys, Deven and Brandon, worked at Barbara Bartels today. Oh yes, Barbara's son called and said he does want to move here. It sounds to me like he wants to come but his wife and daughter don't. James told Barbara that we would press forward in getting the house set up and then she could get excited when her son and his family actually arrived. Greg broke a waterline today and progress on the job had to stop while they fixed this waterline. James had to make a trip into town to get supplies to fix the line and those supplies cost over $100. 

I made a new recipe of goulash today and I loved it. James said it was okay. 

I got a text from Sheri today saying she feels sad and hopeless and she has been feeling this way for weeks and she doesn't know what to do. When a mom gets a text like this from one of her children, a red alert flag goes up. I told her that one of the things that has been helping me recently is to keep a prayer journal. I sent her the article by Debbie Macomber about keeping a journal for your prayers. I later sent her a one year subscription to Deseret Book Plus and their bookshelf app where she can read or listen to over 2500 books. She was very excited about it. I keep my thoughts positive by reading uplifting books and my scriptures. Also, bookshelf is how James and I read so many romance novels. I told Sheri my prayer journal and bookshelf are two things that help me to stay happy and I hope they would help her too.

I updated our checkbooks and made sure all of our bills we paid this afternoon. I also did a little cleaning in my closet hoping I might find my temple cards. No such luck.  I also managed to get over 10,000 steps by 5 p.m. At five I began getting ready for our "Come Follow Me" meeting at the Crane's, which starts at six. James came home and we were both getting ready for the meeting.

I showed James a picture I found behind the headboard of the bed when we were painting. It's a picture of Apollos Boaz Lambson as painted by James's Uncle Kay. James began telling stories about Apollos, his great grandfather. He said the other day when he and Greg were going to Globe he told Greg about his great grandfather chasing outlaws through the hills they were passing through. Greg asked where he lived and James said, "Ramah." Greg then said, "Man those guys back in that day were tough! Riding for hours on horseback, sleeping on the ground and eating whatever they could kill and cook on a campfire." 

I watched a Christmas movie while walking: Our Italian Christmas Memories". This was a movie with a little more depth, about a grandpa with Alzheimers. Beau Bridges was the grandpa and Sarah Powers (From Good Witch) was the granddaughter. 

I finished reading "Believing Christ" and encouraged Sheri to read it too when she gets her bookshelf account set up. I also sent out a LoveGram today. That's what I call it when I send a message to my kids. This one is from President Nelson's talk, "The Everlasting Covenant." 
"Once you and I have made a covenant with God, our relationship with HIm becomes much closer than before our covenant. Now we are bound together. Because of our covenant with God, He will never tire in His efforts to help us, and we will never exhaust His merciful patience with us. Each of us has a special place in God's heart."
(I actually sent this on Tuesday even though I intended to send it today.)

I caught the first half of Dancing with the Stars after returning from the Crane's. Again, Charlie blew me away with her Viennese waltz. She is so graceful and is in another class from all of the other contestants. She should be a professional dancer! (You can watch her dances on YouTube).







Arizona Highway closures

Abby and Cooper

Courtney's Christmas cakes

Excited for this movie,
3 Wisemen and a Baby


My morning snack


Several years ago while serving in the YW I
was in charge of the Young Women in Excellence
dinner. These boys helped serve:
Westin Hall's older brother, Jace Applegate, Mary Swift's brother,
and Tyler Hunsaker

Gracie, Abby, Bailey, Cooper
Peyton & Scotlyn's cousins


Addy and her Harry Potter blanket


Charli & Mark


 
Apollos Boaz Lambson
James's great grandfather
Pioneer extraordinaire













Monday, November 14, 2022

Sunday, November 13th, 2022:Electricity off 1 hr, Primary Children's Program, RS-Wendy DeWitt, L,R,B, James visits Barbara, Index, FH-Joshua, A Merry Christmas Wishua, "

 

Ascuncion, Paraguay
112th operating temple
Dedicated: 19 May 2002
By: Gordon B. Hinckley

Jesus Christ, Son of man
Matthew 26:64
Jesus saith unto him, Thou hast said: nevertheless I say unto you, Hereafter shall ye see the Son of man sitting on the right hand of power, and coming in the clouds of heaven.
Book of Mormon
 3 Nephi 28:1-23
"Come Follow Me"
"Teaching with Power" with Ben Wilcox

OctGenCon
"The Doctrine of Belonging"
Elder D. Todd Christofferson
Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
How blessed we are to see the day that Zion is being established simultaneously on every continent and in our own neighborhoods. As the Prophet Joseph Smith said, the people of God in every age have looked forward with joyful anticipation to this day, and "we are the favored people that God has made choice of to bring about the Latter-day glory."

  I got up at 3:38 and turned the space heater on. I got up for good at 4:10. I said my prayers and recorded them in my prayer journal then I did some gospel study. Today is Relief Society and we are discussing President Oaks's talk, "Helping the Poor and Distressed" so I listened to this talk along with Elder Christofferson's talk, "The Doctrine of Belonging."

At 7:06 the electricity went off. I am not sure why. After it had been off for about 20 minutes I decided I better put my hair in rollers if I was going to have any kind of hairdo at all for church. This was just in case the electricity didn't come back on. Luckily it did come back on around 8 a.m., just in time for me to get ready for church.

Today was the Primary Children's Program about prophets. I was so happy to see that the MacArthur girls were here! Their parents were sitting back in the overflow. Church was especially full today. The children are always a big draw.

All of the children had a speaking part but, of course, the part I like best is the singing. Here are the songs they sang: "I'm Trying To Be Like Jesus" (my favorite!), "Follow the Prophet", "As I Have Loved You" (sign language), "We Thank Thee O God For a Prophet", "I Wonder When He Comes Again", "Teach Me to Walk in the Light", and "Gethsemane." 
It was a great program, as it always is.

Wendy DeWitt was the teacher in Relief Society. Sue Hubble and I sat on the front row. Wendy told some great stories. I especially liked the one about Harold B. Lee as a stake president in California during the depression. Heber J. Grant was the prophet and was worried about how many members of the Church were standing in bread lines. He noticed a sudden change from President Lee's stake regarding members who needed assistance. It went from many to none. He contacted President Lee and asked what his secret was. President Lee said this: A member in our stake has a big barn. One day a month everyone who needs assistance comes and brings something they have to exchange with something they need. No one goes away empty handed. President Grant said every stake in the Church needed one of these gathering barns. That is when buildings started to include cultural halls. This was also the beginning of the Church's welfare system.

Paula Johnson got up and talked about the Vernon Food Pantry which distributes food to needy families in the area every Monday at the library. Paula has been helping with this since 2012. 250 families are signed up. Paula sends out 500 emails regarding needs of the community and how people can help. She is such a good example of community involvement and service!

Collin, Wendy's husband, taught the same lesson in Elder's Quorum.

Chuck told me the tacos we made for them were delicious. I did not see Kathy today. I hope my tacos didn't make her ill.

James and I made lunch when we returned home. Tacos, strawberries with apple bread. I also had a croissant with some Nutella. 

Next we had rest time. James got up early from his nap and did some indexing before he and Dave Westbrook went to visit Barbara Bartels. This is the third week in a row that they have done ministering visits. Someone James already visited, Virgil Cooper, is in the hospital. He called Greg Anderson and asked him if he could take him. James was a little upset that Virgil didn't call him. I He was going to go pick him up but then he heard that Virgil was staying overnight and his good friend, Jerry Scott, was going to visit him.

I blogged, indexed, and worked on family history this afternoon and evening. On the first page of the family history sign in there is always a recommended list. One of the names on the list was Samuel Lawrence Strickland, another one of my grandpa's brothers that I wasn't aware of. When I went to print a card to do his endowment, his other work had already been done, it was reserved by: Joshua Ivan Gonzales, February 2022. I was pleasantly surprised that Joshua had been on Family Search. I called Stacy and she put Joshua on the phone. He said he remembered doing this. I asked him if he could either print the name or unreserve it so I could have it. He said he would. He also asked me if I wanted him to unreserve Arthur and William Strickland too? I told him yes. I knew about William, but i have never heard of Arthur. It's been too long since I have worked on this line of my family!

I am distraught. I keep my temple names that need ordinances, in a small, 4x6 packet with plastic sleeves. I normally have it in one of my purses. I went through all of my purses and my temple bag and I cannot find it. I am so sad that I have lost it. James says I need to go bake online and print out the names again. How can I trust myself not to lose them again?

I was tired and stressed so I sat down to watch a Christmas movie with James. We watched "A Merry Christmas Wish" starring Jill Wagner, James's favorite, and Cameron Mathison. It was just what I needed before going to bed.

Stuart's Christmas decor












Robles took this picture.
They basically live outside.




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